3 Strikes

I had a first date last week (different guy) and three things stuck out. I discussed it with numerous friends as I wanted feedback regarding my response to these things... which was "You're Out!"

1. We agreed to meet at the front of the restaurant, but as it was busy and I arrived first the hostess asked if she could seat me. He arrived a few minutes later, waited at the front a couple of minutes until the hostess noticed him and brought him to our table. I apologized and explained but.... he still was a bit mad. Really, something as miniscule as "this" makes you mad?

2. Waitess asked us "so how would you like the bill, together or seperate?". The guy turned to me with a look on his face as though he was asking me "sooo what should we do?". What?!? You're not being a gentleman and just picking up the bill? We had coffee and an appetizer. I paid as how do you split a $13.00 bill in your 30's.

2.5 I wasn't going to use this as my "3" but I thought it was part of his downfall. I have dated many men, in fact many men who are younger than me. They all have walked me to my car. Romeo was proud of his rock star park job and left me to walk the few blocks to my car alone... at night.

3. I mentioned that I don't like to text and prefer phone calls as they are more personal. He texts me the next day to ask me out again. If you don't have time to call, I have no time for you.